Now you may be wondering, after our previous speaking and your resulting choices [Loving Embrace 1-5] when will you
begin to change the external of your life. Ah! The truth is, that is exactly what you have been doing. Yet we do recognize
that there are some choices to be made regarding your external life.
Then let us begin with those choices.. and hold this caution: when you being to consider making decisions concerning
your external world, the olde ways will once again come around you. They will invite you to enter into blame, into regret, into
anger, into despair, into sadness. When you feel such an invitation, return to the manner you have been practicing of
disengaging with those energies, with those olde ways.
If you discover that you cannot begin to choose how you would change your external world without entering into the olde
ways, then refrain for a time, beloved one, and return to detaching from your painful survival ways.
Once you have accomplished being able to look objectively at what you might want to change in your external world
without entering the chaotic energies of survival, then continue in this manner. List on a paper what you believe you must
change. Notice that we are not saying to list what you believe others must change. Conscious Choosing involves you and
only you. As you have the phrase on earth, this is all about you.
Once you have made your list, set it aside. Then, beloved one, go forth and repeat any or all of the ways that you
thought were silly. Dare to do this, beloved one, dare. And once you have gone forth – really gone forth in that manner –
you will know which item you have listed will be the first that you might want to change. Give it a try, beloved one. Dare!
Dare to change.

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